Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts

Thursday, 6 February 2014

Knowledge is Power - Be powerful


A reminder that IIWR-Manitoba welcomes you to a general meeting on Monday, February the 10th, from 5:30 pm to 9:00, Room 2M 70 at the University of Winnipeg. We are pleased that Diane Redsky will be joining us to speak on "Sex Trafficking in Canada - an Update from Diane Redsky". Ms Redsky is the executive coordinator of the National Task Force on Trafficking of Women and Girls in Canada. All are welcome.

There will be an opportunity to catch up too on the work of IIWR-M and hear about plans for the future. IIWR-M is a member of the steering committee for the UN Safe Cities initiative, and we will update you about that work. We also have an Advocacy Committee, and we will report on what they have been up to. Looking forward to seeing you there!

There are other programs planned - a Conversation Cafe at the Winnipeg Art Gallery, from 6 to 9 pm, February 20th,  in conjunction with a special exhibit - Off the Beaten Pat: Art and Violence. IIWR-M will be part of the panel. You must register in advance by calling 204.789.1290 or email education@wag.ca. There are refreshments, and it is free of charge.

February 24th promises to be a very interesting program on "What the Niqab Bans Tell Us About Sex and Secularism", with Dr. Jennifer Selby. At the U of W, Eckhardt-Gramatee, from 7:30 to 9:00. All are welcome. Lots of time for questions and discussion.
This program is in conjunction with IIWR Global College, IIWR Manitoba, and the Department of Religion and Culture.

The list of programs with dates are attached. Note the very special Local to Global 2014: A New Age is Dawning for Every Mother's Daughter - with Sally Armstrong, May 9th, 7 to 9, at the Viscount Gort. This promises to be a wonderful evening and we hope you will be part of it.

Reminder - check us out on facebook - https://www.facebook.com/InstituteInternationsalWomensRightsManitoba

Thanks everyone for your interest and support,

Mary


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Monday, 20 January 2014

Reilgious Accommodation in the University offends Women

http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2014/01/13/york_universitys_religious_accommodation_decision_the_correct_one_dean_writes.html
The York University dean who approved a student’s request to be removed from a group project with women now has “sincere regret” over the controversy, but stands by his decision. In a letter emailed to university colleagues on Jan. 10, 2014, dean of arts Martin Singer said he saw no other option but to approve a controversial request, made on religious grounds, by a student who wanted to avoid a group seminar with women.
In a letter emailed to university colleagues, dean of arts Martin Singer said he saw no other option but to approve the request, made on religious grounds. “I want to assure each of you of my unwavering commitment to gender equity and of my sincere regret that, given the specific circumstances of this request for accommodation, I was obliged to conclude that the student’s request had to be accommodated,” Singer wrote in an email sent Friday. “I wish I had had another choice, but neither I, nor those who advised me, believe that I did.”
http://www.thestar.com/opinion/commentary/2014/01/18/accommodation_issue_shows_human_rights_principles_are_working.html

Thursday, 5 December 2013

Day of Remembrance for Women Killed because of Violence and Mysogyny - December 6, 2013

This day started with the murder of 14 women students at Ecole Polytechnique but to all women who died unconscionably at the hands of men they know or those they do not know. Be there at 7:30 a.m. tomorrow at the Leg to show your solidarity. 5, 2013 MANITOBA SUPPORTS GOVERNMENT OF CANADA'S CALL FOR END OF VIOLENCE IN UKRAINE Premier Greg Selinger today expressed support for the Government of Canada’s condemnation of recent violence in Ukraine. “Manitoba, like the federal government, stands with the people of Ukraine to ensure that freedom, democracy, human rights and the rule of law are fully respected in Ukraine,” said Premier Selinger. “Manitoba and Ukraine share a long and productive history. Early Ukrainian settlers and more recent newcomers have helped shape this great province, and our ongoing relationship continues to strengthen our economy and enrich our culture.” Mineral Resources Minister Minister Dave Chomiak and Agriculture, Food and Rural Development Minister Ron Kostyshyn commended the Ukrainian Canadian Congress Manitoba Provincial Council and members of the Ukrainian-Canadian community for coming together in recent weeks to express strong concern over the situation unfolding in Ukraine. “I know all Manitobans support the citizens of Ukraine in their efforts to define and implement the social, political and economic reforms necessary to further strengthen their country and economy,” said Minister Chomiak. - 30 -

Sunday, 1 September 2013

A funny but sad video about women's crazy-making lives

http://www.upworthy.com/a-hilarious-and-beautiful-song-about-all-the-crazy-stuff-women-do-to-look-good?c=upw1

Sunday, 21 April 2013

You are loved

You are a divine spark of the Creator. You are an integral part of the human family and you have a right to your own beliefs, your choices and to make decisions for yourself. You are not a piece of property that someone can own. You are not a puppet on a string. You are a conscious being who have a role to play. There is a purpose to your life and you have to find that. If anyone stands in the way of that purpose you have a choice to make to - to defer your dream or to defer the relationship you are in. It's up to you.

Thursday, 17 January 2013

Are Women Losing Again

Microfinance and Patriarchy: 'A Drift Away from Serving Women'

Published: January 16, 2013 in Knowledge@Wharton
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Microfinance -- an approach to poverty based on providing small loans and other financial services to poor people, primarily women -- has inspired extensive press coverage, a Nobel Peace Prize for founder Muhammad Yunus and reams of research in the decades that followed the launch of Grameen Bank in 1976.
Much of the research on microfinance focuses on factors associated with the efficient delivery of loans and their effect on borrowers -- in other words, on the financial and economic aspects of the microfinance movement.
But by ignoring microfinance's cultural aspects -- including the influence of patriarchal attitudes on lending practices -- the ability to make loans to the women whom microfinance was originally intended to serve can be seriously restricted, says Wharton management professor Tyler Wry.
Using data on more than 1,800 microfinance institutions (MFIs) in 168 countries compiled by the Microfinance Information Exchange, Wry and Eric Yanfei Zhao from the University of Alberta School of Business look at policies advocated by the United Nations, World Bank and other development agencies that are intended to build stable infrastructures for microfinance institutions. "We found that countries that do have more liberalized markets, including increased flow of capital and thus the ability to make more loans, also [can] support a lot more microfinance activity, which is good," Wry says. "But we also found that these same factors that would make a country attractive to MFIs also made it less likely that they would lend to women."
He and Zhao present preliminary findings in a working paper titled, "Culture, Economics, and Cross-National Variation in the Founding and Social Outreach of Microfinance Organizations."
In their paper, the authors argue that "gender inequality is an important consideration for understanding the ... focus of MFIs. Our results indicate that a business-friendly economic climate has the potential to undermine" microfinance's goal of empowering women, and that this effect is "amplified in patriarchal countries where the need for lending to women is greatest."
Indeed, the higher degree of patriarchy there is, the more barriers there are to women participating in the economy, the authors suggest, describing patriarchy as belief systems that emphasize women's domestic roles, devalue their education and forbid the inheritance of property "which could be used as loan collateral."
Patriarchy can also reverberate down through the MFIs themselves: Because up to 70% of loans are made to women, access to female employees in MFIs is key. Female loan officers "provide role models for the women in lending groups and offer a tangible example of women's empowerment," the researchers write. In addition, "it is easier for women loan officers to interact with women clients [since] they can easily visit homes to collect installments." Furthermore, "same gender relationships facilitate open dialog about financial questions and problems in the home."
Yet in patriarchal countries, investment in women's education is lacking, the authors add. This situation -- along with roadblocks that prevent women from getting training in such important areas as law, accounting and finance -- results in most of the loan officer jobs going to men. "Given the difficulties associated with making loans to women absent female loan officers, inequities in professional training may also create a barrier to lending to women in patriarchal countries," the researchers write.
'A Lot More MFIs Doing a Lot Less Good'
The irony in this discussion, as the authors note, concerns how difficult it can be to reconcile the goals of microfinance. "While increased foreign investment, low taxes and supportive regulations may create a [positive] environment for MFIs in some regards," this mainly applies to those MFIs that "emphasize financial sustainability over social outreach," the authors write. In other words, while foreign investors may say they want to promote better lifestyles for women and families, they also expect positive financial returns. And yet the motivation for lending to women is to "create social benefits by serving a population that is excluded from traditional financial channels precisely because it isn't profitable to serve them."
Indeed, studies have shown that MFIs that focus on lending to women "are less likely to be financially self-sustainable and more reliant on government subsidies than their commercially oriented counterparts." Consequently, such MFIs "are not likely to be attractive investment targets," according to the paper.
As Wry notes, "women tend to be really poor clients. That was the reason microfinance was attracted to them in the first place, so that women could access normal channels of lending." But when financial capital comes in, with its emphasis on generating returns on loan repayments, women tend to be "pushed away from the microfinance market," he adds.
"The bottom line is that if you take steps to promote entrepreneurial activity, it has a counterproductive effect in countries where you most need MFIs to reach out with loans to women," Wry says. His research, he adds, "shows that if you only look at the economic side of this, you can start to make decisions that have unforeseen consequences.... If we agree that microfinance should help impoverished women break out of cycles of despair, it's important to talk about what is going on when we implement economic policies that the World Bank and others support. [These policies] do have some good consequences, but they also might have some downsides in terms of outreach to women."
The scholarly evaluation of microfinance on the micro level shows, for example, that women borrowers are more likely "to generate financial returns, invest these in their families and repay loans than their male counterparts." But at the macro level, "the potential to deliver these benefits depends on the prevalence of microfinance organizations within a country and the degree to which they focus on women's lending -- areas where current studies offer limited insight," the authors write.
They suggest that "economic and cultural factors are important for understanding both the emergence of MFIs and their commitment to women's lending, but that they affect these outcomes differently." They note, in particular, that "a supportive economic environment will lead to higher MFI founding rates because it provides fertile conditions for business creation." At the same time, however, they anticipate that "high levels of patriarchy will suppress both MFI foundings and women's lending because factors associated with gender inequality may limit access to resources such as financial capital, employees and customers."
The authors also predict that a business-friendly economic climate will help offset some of the resource constraints that patriarchy creates for MFI foundings, but will "amplify the suppression of women's lending by creating financial inducements to lend to less-poor male clients."
Patriarchy, Wry says, really changes the outcome when you look at both the economic and cultural factors. "You need to consider both sides of the equation. Patriarchy may be changing the nature of microfinance in many countries. You are seeing an accelerated drift away from serving women. A lot more MFIs are doing a lot less good."
People like to think of capital as "neutral," Wry notes. "But if you want to make money in microfinance, that will have some pretty dramatic effects. You see over time that Grameen Bank was a hybrid organization. It was new and novel, but the mission was very much on the social side. What we are seeing now in the whole sector is that MFIs are still hybrids, but the order in which the two parts are mixed has been flipped. When it started, it was financial tools being used for social good. Now it has increasingly become a social mission used as a way to generate money. Organizations fall between these poles. This minimizes the benefits to women unless you have a country where women don't comprise a disproportionate share of the poor."
But of course in many countries, women tend to be the poorest segment of the population, a status that is further solidified by the existence of patriarchal attitudes. Wry and Zhao at one point cite a widely used definition of patriarchy as "a shared belief system where male domination serves as a model for structuring individual identities, interpersonal relationships and large scale institutional arrangements."
Wry says their paper is the first to offer a large-scale sociological analysis. "Many papers look at single countries or single cases. They have interesting things to say, but they don't look at the broad patterns. We are trying to move the debate to a higher level." Interdisciplinary dialog is important, he notes, "particularly in opening up debate among scholars who bring different, but complementary, tools to the table."
Beyond this, he adds, "I think there needs to be some sober thought about what -- as a field -- we think microfinance should be doing. So much of the debate gets bogged down in platitudes about sustainability and win-win scenarios when business insights and acumen are applied to the social sector. Yes, it is true that doing this can have some positive effects; we are seeing this with the growing prevalence of MFIs globally. However, these platitudes gloss a fundamental tension -- namely that there are limits to what business can do in the social sector, and it may be that you cannot, and should not, be trying to make money by delivering social goods."
There are "many people and problems that you can't make money off of, and this is where governments and public policy need to enter and assert their voice," Wry states. "The aim shouldn't be to temper innovation or enterprise, but to offer subsidy and stability. This is basically what Yunus says, and I think he's bang on."  
http://knowledge.wharton.upenn.edu/article.cfm?articleid=3169

Wednesday, 2 January 2013

Gang raping of Syrian Women appears to be Promoted

Religious Leader Calls for Gang Rape of Syrian Women -(CRAZY, CRAZY)
He specified that the “intercourse marriages” last only a few hours “in order to give each fighter a turn.”
 A prominent Saudi cleric has issued a fatwa(a religious ordinance) that calls for the gang rape of Syrian women.  Expressing frustration that the “warriors of Islam” fighting in Syria may be getting weary for the lack of sexual pleasure, the religious leader issued a decree that promotes hours-long “intercourse marriages.”
The cleric, Muhammed al-Arifi, who is a leading jihadist religious figure, made it clear that his edict called for the gang rape of Syrian women and girls. He specified that the “intercourse marriages” last only a few hours “in order to give each fighter a turn.” As to who is an eligible bride, the cleric approves any girls or women over the age of 14 who are widowed or divorced. Yes, you read that right. Any girls over the age of 14.

http://www.alternet.org/world/saudi-religious-leader-calls-gang-rape-syrian-women?

Women Around the World You Need to Respond to this threat!

Thursday, 4 October 2012



Family Services and Labour Minister Jennifer Howard, minister responsible for the status of women (third from right) welcomed five dynamic speakers who presented their views on the importance of mentorship and women as role models at the celebration of Women’s History Month.
Family Services and Labour Minister Jennifer Howard, minister responsible for the status of women (third from right) welcomed five dynamic speakers who presented their views on the importance of mentorship and women as role models at the celebration of Women’s History Month.
(l to r ) Shelley Hart, Janice Ristock, Ariana Yaftali, Minister Jennifer Howard, Jenna Wirch, Alana Gauthier)

October 3, 2012

MENTORS' KNOWLEDGE SEED TO SUCCEED: HOWARD

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Province Celebrates Women's History Month
Women’s History Month 2012 focuses on the importance of mentors and role models who empower others through their work and help young women plan and accomplish success in their lives, Family Services and Labour Minister Jennifer Howard, minister responsible for the status of women said today.
“This year, we are honouring women in our province who act as role models and mentors,” said Howard.  “The knowledge they have accumulated is the seed they plant for the success of others.  Knowledge gained first-hand through a lifetime of experience is a gift that grows in value each time it is shared.”
Five speakers at a special event to be held today at noon at the Legislative Building will speak about their experiences with mentoring, how female mentors have helped them and will offer words of advice to inspire young women in the province.  Each of today’s speakers is an outstanding Manitoba woman with a unique view on the benefits of mentoring and an exceptional role model for others, said Howard.
The success of each of these women serves to inspire and encourage others to follow in their footsteps, make a difference and discover the value of mentoring the next generation in their own communities, the minister said.
“It is gratifying to meet so many valuable role models and mentors who work to encourage and nurture other young women in our province,” said Howard.  “Role models and mentors can be found in all areas of our province, in rural, urban and northern communities and across a wide number of fields from business and social services to academia, to name just a few.  We applaud their generosity in sharing their wisdom.”
Women’s History Month is held nationally in October to celebrate the advances and contributions of women in all aspects of Canadian society.  This annual event provides an opportunity to recognize the many achievements of women in Manitoba and to reflect on the continuing evolution of women’s roles in today’s society, said the minister.
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Monday, 17 September 2012

What would Prophet-Muhammad have done?

News and Views » Commentary

Gwynne Dyer: "Blasphemy", caste, and persecution in Pakistan

A 14-year-old Christian girl was found to have half-burned remnants of a book with verses from the Quran in her bag.
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It was a welcome change from the usual dreary story: a Christian or a Hindu Pakistani accused of blasphemy on flimsy grounds, tried, and sentenced to prison—or found innocent, set free and then murdered by some Muslim fanatic. This time was different.
The victim this time was a 14-year-old Christian girl, Rimsa Masih, who is believed to suffer from Down’s syndrome. She was stopped by a young Muslim man who found the half-burned remnants of a book that allegedly included verses from the Qur'an in her carrier bag. He told the local imam, who called the police, and she was arrested.
This kind of story usually ends badly in Pakistan. Two years ago, for example, a Christian woman, Asia Bibi, was arrested for insulting the Prophet Muhammad while arguing with fellow farm workers. She was sentenced to death by hanging, but it was such a manifest injustice that the governor of Punjab province, Salman Taseer, publicly called for the repeal of the blasphemy law. He was assassinated by his own bodyguard in January 2011.
The bodyguard was tried for murder and convicted, but he was treated as a hero by many Pakistanis, and the judge who sent him to prison had to flee the country. Two months later the only Christian member of Pakistan’s cabinet, Shahbaz Bhatti, was also shot dead when he spoke out against the blasphemy laws. Since then, almost nobody has dared to criticize them.
Asia Bibi remains in prison awaiting execution. Her entire family, including her five children, live in hiding and cannot work or go to school. And while the higher courts would once have thrown out her conviction—they have overturned hundreds of sentences for blasphemy imposed by lower courts that were too vulnerable to local pressures—she can no longer even be confident of that.
So the outlook seemed grim for Rimsa Masih when she was arrested last month—but then the imam who had called the police, Hafiz Mohammad Khalid Chisti, was arrested for doctoring the evidence. His own deputy had seen him adding pages from the Qur'an to the young Christian’s bag.
“I asked him what he was doing,” the deputy told a television station, “and he said this is the evidence against them (the local Christians) and this is how we can get them out from this area.” Two other witnesses came forward against Chisti, and Hafiz Mohammad Ashrafi, the chairman of the All Pakistan Ulema Council, a body of senior Muslim clerics, declared that “Our heads are bowed with shame for what Chisti did.”
Ashrafi added that Chisti was acting on behalf of a group who wanted to drive out the Christian minority in the area: “I have known for the last three months that some people in this area wanted the Christian community to leave so they could build a madrassah (on their land).” They have already succeeded: some 300 Christian families have fled in fear for their lives, and they probably won’t be back. But at least the state is starting to defy the fanatics.
Bail is not normally granted in blasphemy cases, but on September 8 Rimsa Masih was freed on bail, and a military helicopter lifted her out of the prison yard and into hiding. And Paul Bhatti, the Minister for National Harmony, whose brother and predecessor Shahbaz was murdered last year, broke a political taboo by explaining why ordinary Pakistanis are more hostile to the religious minorities in their midst than most Muslims elsewhere.
“It is not just a religious problem,” Bhatti said. “It’s a caste factor, because (the victims) belong to the poorest and most marginalized people. Unfortunately they are Christians, and this caste system creates lots of problems.”
Islam teaches the equality of all believers, but the caste system is alive and kicking in Pakistan. Go far enough back, and almost all Pakistani Muslims are descended from Hindus—and when those Hindu communities converted to Islam, they retained their ideas and prejudices about caste.
This was particularly disheartening for groups at the bottom of the caste pecking order who had hoped that Islam would free them. When the British empire arrived in the area, therefore, it was the poorest and most despised section of the population who converted to Christianity.
So everybody knows that most Christians are really "untouchables". The argument that got Asia Bibi in trouble, for example, broke out when some of her Muslim fellow workers refused to drink the water she had fetched because Christians were “unclean”.
The Hindu minority is mostly just as low caste as the Christians, and equally vulnerable. Together they are only six million out of 187 million Pakistanis, but they account for the vast majority of blasphemy accusations. In many cases, these accusations are merely a convenient weapon for Muslims engaged in land disputes and other quarrels with members of the minority groups.
Maybe the Pakistani government has finally found the nerve to deal with this corrupt law and to protect its victims. The Rimsa Masih case is a hopeful sign. But Pakistan still has a long way to go before all of its citizens are really equal under the law.

Monday, 10 September 2012

Post Winnipeg UN Women Report

Dear Friends,

This is a message to update you as to the work that has gone on this summer to close the Winnipeg Chapter of the Canadian National Committee for UN Women and plans for us to move forward.

Great news - we were able to send $9,912.91 to UN Women, which brings to a total $43,912.91 that this Chapter has raised over 10 years. This is thanks to the work, support and donations from all of you.

The documents have been prepared, and sent, with the requirement that the funds be sent to UN Women for the Women, War and Peace program, and that the information on the Canadian National Committee's web site be corrected, ie that the decision by the National Committee is to no longer have any Chapters in Canada, and that the Winnipeg Chapter has been dissolved.

Although we could not hold an Annual Meeting, we did prepare an Annual Report, and you can see the final report that was sent here - http://tinyurl.com/8kbys3z. If you can't access, or open the file, let me know, and I can send you an electronic version. Special thanks to Allison Fenske, Donna Marion and Elaine Stevenson for their help in completing the necessary and sometimes stressful work.

We will be making a donation to Manitoba Archives. It's a great idea, so if you have something that could be included to record the Winnipeg Chapter's history, please let Wilma Sotas (<w_sotas@shaw.ca>) know. Also - Alanna Gray is willing to put together a "Memory Book" - please consider writing something about what the Winnipeg Chapter meant to you and sending it to Alanna at <gray.alanna@gmail.com>. Deadline on items for the Memory Book is October 1.

We can all be proud of the work, and accomplishments of the Winnipeg Chapter.

But it is now time to move forward. A small group of past board members, and planning committee members (calling ourselves Manitoba Women Moving Forward- MWMF) have been thinking about this, and we are looking to continue to work for women's equality, human rights, and peace - locally and globally. We see the work as complimenting the work of so many others in the community, and sharing and promoting their work where we can. We can be associated with the Institute for International Women's Rights (part of Global College at U of W). If you have any thoughts, ideas and recommendations to consider, please share.

In the meantime we are supporting 2 initiatives - one is Stop Violence Now! with the Girl Guides - scheduled for November 3rd. They are looking for speakers particularly on the international aspects of violence against women and girls and we have linked them with 2 of our members. Another initiative we are supporting is an event with MATCH, and a visit by three Feminist Activists in early October. They are being supported by the Nobel Women's Initiative and are from Palestine, Burma and Sudan. Will get more details out on this visit shortly.

So stay tuned everyone! Something good will come from all this!

Mary Scott

3083 Vialoux Dr.
Winnipeg, Manitoba
CANADA, R3R 0A1
phone: 1.204.888-2996 mobile: 1.204.996.7653
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"The education and empowerment of women throughout the world cannot fail to result in a more caring, tolerant, just and peaceful life for all." Aung San Suu Kyi, Nobel Peace Prize Laureate, leader of Burma's democracy movement

Tuesday, 28 August 2012

Responding to Violence Against Women in Diverse Cultures

 Responding to Violence Against Women in Diverse Cultures

According to global research by experts, reports by WHO, Committee on Elimination of Discrimination Against Women (UNCEDAW), Human Rights and UN Women, women from various cultures or nations today have experienced one from of violence or the other. These violence’s are embedded into the norms and values of culture and traditions. For Instance, In Sudan women are sentenced to stoning for adultery, In South Africa, women are forced to rape by the family if she opposes a marital choice for her, In Somalia, women face corporate punishment such as lashing or stoning if the conduct of her daily business is contradicts the ruling political or strategic objectives. In Ghana and in situations of marital conflict and divorce, women lose out on land she farmed with her husband during marriage. Juliana Nkrumah, the founder of African Women Australia, said domestic violence did not discriminate. "We should not excuse cultural practices that are damaging,'', ''but nor should we use culture as an excuse for damaging behavior.


Some of the violence traditions that women have to face are life-threatening. There are for example customs such sati, which forces many Hindu women to immolate themselves on top of the funeral pyres created for their deceased husbands (there’s no sati for males of course), or women in some African countries being subjected to violent exorcism rites or even being killed after being accused of witchcraft. Many of these culturally sanctioned crimes are financially motivated, eliminating the wife as the inheritress of her husband’s estate and having it being transferred instead to the couple’s sons or the father’s family. Different ways of abusing women’s Human Rights takes place in many African countries, including Kenya, Zimbabwe, Nigeria, Rwanda and Uganda, where women actually become part of their husband’s estate – supposedly in the widow’s interest to offer her security and protection. An act of humiliation itself, the inheritance of women also culturally approves acts of “widow cleansing”. Violence against Women in diverse culture may take many forms and has enormous social, economic costs, and undercuts the contribution of women to development, human rights, peace, and security. Violence against Women hampers the economic development and stability within the community in which they live. It also poses a serious threat to the achievement of the Millennium Development Goals.
 
 

Tuesday, 24 July 2012

Some Leaders in India want to ban love

According to some village leaders in India women's freedom to love is creating havoc for families and want love marriages be banned and save the shamed faces of parents.
I'm scratching my head...... How can one ban love?

http://www.chatelaine.com/en/blog/post/39954--why-marry-one-man-says-it-certainly-shouldn-t-be-for-love

Sunday, 22 April 2012

Bollywood Actress beheaded

A stunning young Bollywood actress was killed in a gruesome murder that seems to be straight out of a horror movie.
Meenakshi Thapar, 26, was kidnapped, strangled and beheaded by two aspiring actors whom she met on the set of her latest film, “Heroine,” London’s Telegraph reported.
According to police, Amit Jaiswal and his girlfriend Preeti Surin allegedly lured Thapar on a trip with them to Gorakhpur, a small town known for its Buddhist temple.
During the trip, however, the duo reportedly held Thapar hostage and threatened her mother that they would force Thapar to do pornography if their demands were not met.
Her mother paid 60,000 rupees (about $1,150) but never saw her daughter again.
Instead, according to the report, the couple strangled and beheaded Thapar and dumped her torso in a water tank before throwing her head out of a bus window.
“They wanted to extort money from her family. They have confessed to the crime. She was strangulated in a hotel and her body was hacked into pieces and thrown in a water tank. They threw her head from a moving bus while traveling back to Mumbai,” a detective told the Telegraph.
They were busted when they were caught with Thapar’s cell phone SIM card and confessed to the killing. Authorities are hoping the accused killers can lead them to the actress’ body.
http://www.inquisitr.com/223022/bollywood-actress-meenakshi-thapar-kidnapped-by-costars-beheaded/

Thursday, 19 April 2012

Pakistan's Women Get a Helping Hand From Maryam Bibi - Worldpress.org

This woman is putting her life on the line to protect the rights of women in her community.  Her story is hopeful and inspiring.  We all can learn something from her dedication, her will and sense of right and wrong.

Pakistan's Women Get a Helping Hand From Maryam Bibi - Worldpress.org